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ungasan, bali, Indonesia
zahyawie zubinof: keluarga ini - semoga jadi keluarga yang sakinah, terbentuk di sebuah daerah di pulau bintan, riau kepulauan, yang bernama lagoi. berawal dari teman sekerja, lalu menikah terus mempunyai keturunan. sampai telah mendapatkan seorang putra dan seorang putri, kita masih tinggal di lagoi sampai tahun 2007... proudly we say: made in lagoi. bulan agustus 2007 kita boyongan ke bali, memulai kehidupan baru dengan segala sesuatu yang baru pula, semoga jadi awal menuju kebahagiaan dunia dan akhirat

visi mandiri 3rd celebration

lengan baju abang kepanjangan...hehehe
pose... kok senyumnya ditahan?
wao... not bad for the very first time
abang look bigger here...
this year celebration at visi mandiri school where abang and adek schooling happen when ayah was still on his assignment in jakarta.
this made worry for some people since they should find person to present the program, since basing on last year even was running a bit unwell when ayah unable to present due to his work...
but finally ayah managed to go back to bali, then everyone were happy...
the program finally conducted by ayah and just like usual all the family member involved; ayah presented the program as mc, bunda coordinating the performer, abang performed with his drumband group and also presenting the english club and adek... she performed the modelling contest for the very first time...
what an exciting moments...

at soekarno hatta airport

awaiting to board, tonight ayah is going to fly to bali to meet the lovely family...

fly a bit late due to looking for cheapest airfare, hmmm
look like going to be delay, arrrggghhh

anyway, next week going to be nyepi day in bali, but ayah will be already back to jakarta. so the whole family will only be staying at home, not like previous nyepi that always stays in hotel to avoid inconvenience since abang and adik still so young and a bit difficult to control if have to stay at home for the whole 24 hours and could not make any noise..
so at this nyepi, ayah unable to accompany adik and abang to watch ogoh-ogoh parade where usually adik will feel scare to see but curious to see them...

anyway... nyepi  is the balinese "day of silence" that is commemorated every  isakawarsa (saka  new year) according to balinese calendar (in this year, it will be on march 23rd). it is a day of silence, fasting, and meditation. the day following nyepi is also celebrated as new year.   

observed from 6 a.m. until 6 a.m. the next morning, nyepi is a day reserved for self-reflection and as such, anything that might interfere with that purpose is restricted. the main restrictions are: no lighting fires (and lights must be kept low); no working; no entertainment or pleasure; no traveling; and for some, no talking or eating at all. the effect of these prohibitions is that bali's usually bustling streets and roads are empty, there is little or no noise from tvs and radios, and few signs of activity are seen even inside homes. the only people to be seen outdoors are the pecalang, traditional security men who patrol the streets to ensure the prohibitions are being followed. 

although nyepi is primarily a  hindu holiday, non-hindu residents of bali observe the day of silence as well, out of respect for their fellow citizens. even tourists are not exempt; although free to do as they wish inside their hotels, no one is allowed onto the beaches or streets, and the only airport in bali remains closed for the entire day. the only exceptions granted are for emergency vehicles carrying those with life-threatening conditions and women about to give birth. 

on the evening before nyepi, there will be a parade called  ngrupuk parade in which people will carry ogoh-ogoh (statues of demons especially built for this parade). there are normally eight or more men carrying the ogoh-ogoh on their shoulders. this procession is accompanied by orchestral music performed by the youth. during the procession, the ogoh-ogoh is rotated counter-clockwise three times. this act is done at every t-junction and crossroad of the village and is intended to scare away the evil spirits.  

on the day after nyepi, known as
ngembak geni, social activity picks up again quickly, as families and friends gather to ask forgiveness from one another, and to perform certain religious rituals together.
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the first watch after a while

been a while ayah did not wearing watch, maybe about five years or more... always look at his mobile to know the time
and yesterday bought one with spectacular discount... hmmm luckily...it's worth for money though

masa kecil ayah: cemilan

once ayah said:
"sendirian di depan tivi, sambil ngemil kacang telor, suddenly brought my mind back to my childhood, setiap saat emak selalu aja nyetok jajan cemilan yang dibelinya di pasar. kan keseharian emak dagang ayam di pasar, so setiap pulang pasti bawa jajan yang lalu untuk mengisi beberapa kaleng bekas biskuit.
setiap pulang sekolah, atau pulang maen gua selalu rajin bergerilya jajanan di dapur... semua diperiksa, setiap kaleng digoyang, tutup saji dibukain sampai menemukan jajan...
favourite gw adalah 'pethil' - a kind of crunchy snack made from casava, gak hanya crunchy tapi keras kriuk-kriuk... hmmmm
betapa creative nya emak gw waktu itu...
there was a funny moment happened, itu kaleng kalo dah agak lama kosong kan agak bau tuh kaleng, nah untuk ngilanginnya dipakailah koran dibakar lalu dimasukin ke dalam kaleng, agar asapnya banyak tutupnya dipasang tapi jangan sampe ketutup rapet... eh tiba-tiba tanpa sengaja tutupnya geser sehingga tuh kaleng ketutup rapet padahal api masih nyala... alhasil tuh kaleng dengan slow motion menjadi penyok kesamping sampai bengkok... gw sama emak sama-sama ngakak, bener-bener ngakak... mata kami berdua sampai berair...
ohhh that memory will never last may she rest in peace..."

itu sekelumit cerita masa kecila ayah yang sangat membahagiakan sama mbah putri...
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